I try to teach the armadillo to stand up for himself when someone is not being nice to him. I advise the armadillo that if someone is hitting him, to respond to the abuser with something like, "Please don't hit me.". His version usually is something like "DON'T hit me!", with the emphasis on the word "don't" and the obilgatory finger waving in the face. I want the armadillo to grow up with confidence and the ability to stand his ground and not let anyone take advantage of him. Well I think that I'm doing my job pretty well as evidenced by our recent conversation this morning.
Me: "Armadillo, please take off your shoes."
Armadillo: (no response, staring off into space ...)
Me: "Armadillo, ..."
Armadillo: (no response, staring off into space ...)
Me: "Armadillo, ..."
Armadillo: (no response, staring off into space ...)
Me: "Armadillo! Armadillo! Armadillo!"
Armadillo: (looks at me) "No shout at me Mommy!"
Me: "hmph! ... smart alec kid ..." I mutter under my breath as I walk away ...